A player is synonymous to a womanizer. They are the same. A player is someone who is an expert at breaking hearts in every relationship he finds himself. It means nothing to them. They take relationships and dating as a game. Sadly, many ladies fall for their antics. The question is, how can you identify a player in a dating relationship?
The following telltale sign will help you identify a player when you see one:
1. A player is full of lies
A player cannot speak the truth. He is full of lies to cover up his tracks. He will keep on making empty promises he is not planning to keep. When a guy keeps promising and disappointing you, beware, you may be dealing with a player.
2. A player is a smooth talker
When you meet a man who cannot keep quiet for a second without telling you how beautiful you are, how he loves you more than his mother and how he has great plans for you. He will even tell you he is planning to make it big so he can buy a car for you and whatever you need. He will do nothing he says.
3. You don’t know your stand with him
A player will never tell you where you belong. He is ready to play for as long as he wants. He will never commit to any lasting relationship. You will always wonder where he is and whether he will call or the next thing he will do. He has no plans for the future of your relationship.
4. A player will not introduce you to anyone he knows
If you have been dating a man for few months and he has not introduced you to any of his friends, colleagues or family, it is a telltale sign he does not see a future with you. You are not part of his life.
5. A player will flirt with everyone
If your man is a lady’s man, he is a player. He flirts with everyone else. He finds it difficult to let go of girls without sleeping with them. If you see a guy that keeps cheating on you with other girls, please know he is a player and run because you will be his next target.
6. A player will not tell you much about himself
A player will not want you to know much about him. Even the information you have about him is not true. He will try to hide his past relationships as much as possible. He only wants to have his way with you and move on to the next available woman.
If you find yourself in a relationship with a player, it is time to break it and move on. Watch out for these signs so you will not be his next victim.