Do you search for love or wait for it to find you? This is a very tricky question. It depends on what you mean by searching for love. If your idea of searching for love is to approach every lady or man you meet on the street and tell them you love them, then you miss it. On the other hand, if your idea of waiting is to sit at home all day playing video games or watching movies, you miss it as well. So, what is ideal when it comes to searching and waiting for love? For men, it is ideal for you to search. The bible says "he that FINDs a wife, finds a good thing…". Your job is to find and not stay passive. When I say find I am not referring to you talking to everyone you meet like I said above. It will not work that way. Also, if you are a woman, you may not search, but position yourself where you can be found. Staying at home all day will not miraculously produce a partner, going out all day will not also give you a partner, it must be balanced. Below are ways you can search and ...