Do you search for love or wait for it to find you? This is a very tricky question. It depends on what you mean by searching for love. If your idea of searching for love is to approach every lady or man you meet on the street and tell them you love them, then you miss it.
On the other hand, if your idea of waiting is to sit at home all day playing video games or watching movies, you miss it as well. So, what is ideal when it comes to searching and waiting for love?
For men, it is ideal for you to search. The bible says “he that FINDs a wife, finds a good thing…“. Your job is to find and not stay passive. When I say find I am not referring to you talking to everyone you meet like I said above. It will not work that way. Also, if you are a woman, you may not search, but position yourself where you can be found. Staying at home all day will not miraculously produce a partner, going out all day will not also give you a partner, it must be balanced.
Below are ways you can search and wait for love:
1. Improve yourself
As you search for your love or wait for love to find you, improve yourself. Most people wait for their partners to come before they go to school to acquire more education. As you wait for your partner to come, improve yourself. There are several free and paid courses online you can take to broaden your knowledge and create new skills you can monetize later on in life. Search for them and enroll. Do that in your free time and it will improve your total outlook on life.
2. Improve your social life
If you are the type that does not like socializing, you’ve got to improve. Attend your friends’ and relatives marriage ceremonies, birthdays, engagement occasions, family get-togethers etc. Don’t be a loner. Mingle with friends and family members and get to know more people. That way, you never can tell, your love might just be around the corner waiting for you to show up.
3. Improve your lifestyle
Do you know your lifestyle can repulse prospective partner? It can push them far away from you. For instance, if you are the type that dresses shabbily or scantily, exposing your hidden gems to everyone, you might drive away responsible men or women that are attracted to you. If you are the type that smokes and drinks, change your lifestyle, stop it and live a healthy lifestyle. It may drive away potential partner from you. If you are obese because you eat too much, cut down on cabs and engage in exercises that can help you lose weight. Live a healthy lifestyle and you will be close to finding someone you love and that loves you back.
4. Attend meetings
Get yourself out there and attend meetings. It can be religious meetings, seminars, workshops, conferences, etc. Attend the meetings in your offices and industries. This is a great avenue to find professionally inclined persons you can mingle with and even love. Go, even if it means traveling out of your location or country to attend events, you will make lots of friends and also network with people.
5. Be in touch with friends and family
Sometimes, most people neglect their friends and family once they finish school and get better jobs. They hardly relate with cousins, nephews, uncles, and aunts. Communicate with your old friends and forgotten family members. You never can tell, they may be the bridge that will link to the love of your life.
Are you waiting or searching for love? What are you doing to find them? Share with me in the comment section below.