You have been through so much heartbreak
You have tried all you could to make your relationships work
But it always ends up with heartbreak
You hurt each time it happens
You are tired of dating and relationships
So, you decided to give up on love?
I get it.
You are hurt.tired.discouraged.
It is ok to want to give up on love
But what if I tell you that you can get out of that situation and find the love that will last long?
You don’t believe it?
Ok, read on.
You may have suffered many heartbreaks in your relationship, but that does not mean you should give up on love. Love is a beautiful thing that can happen to anyone. Sometimes I hear people say maybe they are not cut out for romantic relationships because of their experiences. This is not the truth. You cannot conclude because of your experiences. Don’t allow your experiences to make you bitter instead of better.
Get up and move on. But this is easier said than done. How do you move on to love again? How do you stop to give up on love?
The points below will help you reappraise yourself and find the strength to move on.
1. Reappraise yourself
The first thing you should do now is to reappraise yourself. Look at the relationships you have had in time past. Why were they broken? Were they broken by you or your partner? What caused the break-up? Is it your fault or your partner’s? This questions and a thorough look at your past relationships will help you find what the problem is and how you can handle future relationships. The thing is, don’t jump into relationships quickly in order to heal. Find out what has been happening in your love life. If the fault is yours, look for ways to change your character and other aspects of your life that repulse people. If it is not your fault, check out ways you can know people before you enter a relationship with them.
2. Explore your own interest
After the appraisal, forget about love for now and focus on yourself. Yeah! What do you like to do for fun? Games, skiing, diving, dancing, etc. Whatever you like doing that gives you joy, do it. It will bring back the excitement and happiness you lost. You will find life attractive again. Do whatever that catches your fancy.
3. Learn something new
Go online and learn something new. If you are a lady, search for different things you can cook, knit or DIY projects. If you are a man, learn how to play guitar, sax, etc. It will take up your time and feel your heart with something to think about. There are free and paid online courses you can take in your profession that will enhance your career and open you up to a world of more possibilities.
4. Spend time with family and friends
There is so much love surrounding family members. Go out there and spend time with your family members and you will be enveloped in the love that surrounds them. Go out with friends and enjoy yourself. As you do this continuously, you will find peace of mind and love that will help you heal quickly and forge ahead in life.
5. Love and value yourself
The last thing you need to do is to love and value yourself. Know you are special. That you’ve been having heartbreaks does not mean no one can love or value you. First show yourself some love and others will be drawn to you by that same love. You are lovable and valuable irrespective of what you are going through.