It has always been your heart desire to have a good marriage. But you know it is not possible unless you are in a relationship with the right partner. Sure, you have been in a couple relationship, but the people you have dated don't seem to be 'it'. You are worried that you don't know if the person you are with is the right one for you. The thing is, unless you know this truth; you are bound to enter a wrong marriage. A wrong marriage can lead to uncoordinated life and much worse consequences. I bet you; you don’t want to be there. The question is, How do you know when someone is not right for you? Let me share part of my story to encourage you. Before I got married 10 years ago, I was in a relationship with a guy (that should be about 12 years ago). We loved each other and planned to get married. One day, I was praying, and I asked God about this guy. Is he the right man for me? The answer I got was confusing. He gave me a bible verse to let me know ...
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5 Frightening Reasons to Stop Playing hard to Get
You've heard of playing hard to get, right? Here's the scenario: You are beautiful Several men have asked for a date with you But, you think you shouldn’t tell them ‘yes’ immediately It's not as if you are not interested in their proposal You simply want them to ask and ask again before you say 'yes' So, you play hard to get to make them work for it. You want to be chased. You are simply enjoying the game. You know what? It is time to stop that game. The thing is, many ladies believe if you say yes to a man at the first instance, he may not value you. But if you say no and he continues to pester you until you say yes, it means he really loves you and he will value you. How wrong they are. That you said ‘yes’ to a man when he asks you out does not mean he will value you less or that you will look cheap in his eyes. Also, that you say ‘no’ to a man to make him pursue you more does not make you valuable or expensive in his eyes. To balance this ...
How to know when someone really loves you (even if they don’t say it)
You are in a relationship You deeply love your partner But you are not sure whether your partner loves you as much as you love them. You've tried all you could to love him in your own way, but the love is not reciprocated, you thought. Sure, you get an occasional nice comment about your looks, but it's not like he is raving about you, or tripping over you. You feel he does not love you after all. And there is this nagging question bugging your mind. Am I really sure he loves me? Good question. I once lived with a couple where the man does not like uttering the words "I love you". He is not just a word-man. I kept telling him he is not romantic. But does he loves his wife, yeah, He does. How did I know? By his actions. You may be in love with someone who does not like saying “I love you”, or they don’t tell you as often as you need to hear it. Not to worry, I have compiled twenty (20) actions you can watch out for to know if they really love you or ...