Marriage to the right person makes you free to be the person you really are. You held the card in your hands; it is another wedding card invitation from one of your friends. As you looked at the card, questions popped up in your mind. When will it be my turn? When will I send out my wedding invitation cards to friends? It is not as if you don't have a partner; you do. But the thought of making a commitment is daunting. As you put down the invitation card, you sigh. It feels like you can never commit to a relationship. You have a good partner you could consider, but you are worried they might not be the one. You're afraid of making a commitment to a wrong person. You are afraid of staying single for a long time. You worry you may not start a family at the right time. But if you don't make a commitment, you might lose the love of your life to someone else. You think the answer to having a good marriage is love and If you love your partner, everything will be all ...
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7 Ways to Know you are in a Toxic Relationship (and what to do about it)
Your desire is to be successfully married to a responsible spouse. But you know it is nearly impossible with your current relationship unless something changes. Sure you love your partner, but it's not like they are raving about you or tripping over you. You are concerned that you are not getting as much attention from them as you want. Unless you recognize the relationship you are in and act accordingly, your desire to be happily married will be a mirage. The thing is: Most people are in a toxic relationship and they don't even know it. They keep hoping that their partners will change or that things will change for the best. But I tell you, that kind of people hardly change, except they give their lives to Christ. So, what are the warning signs of a toxic relationship? Below are 7 glaring scenarios that will make it easy for you to identify a toxic relationship. Let's get started. 1. When the thought of a future with them makes you more anxious ...
7 Glaring Ways to Know When it is Time to Leave a Relationship
Your heart tells you it is time to quit But you are finding it difficult to do so You still love her You have always done. But you know your relationship has no future You can't curtail her excesses. It is not as if you don't know what to do You do. But you are waiting for the right time to leave the relationship. The truth is, I feel you. I have been there before. I shared with you briefly in the last article titled "10 Surprising Ways to Know When someone is not right for you". I knew I had to break the relationship It wasn't easy. But I did and I have never regretted my decision. The thing is: Few people go into relationships to end it abruptly. Everyone looks for a long-lasting relationship. But the truth is, as you get to know each other more, you will see the good, the bad and the ugly sides of one another. It is at such time you will need to decide on whether to stay or leave if you are finding it difficult to cope. Every ...